Your safety comes first
Meet new people with confidence
Most connections begin with an ordinary hello. A few sensible habits help keep conversations and first meetings safe.
How we help
Profiles are manually reviewed before appearing in the community. Members can report suspicious behaviour, harassment or anything that feels wrong. Review reduces risk, but it cannot replace your own judgement.
Message safely
- Keep early conversations on the platform
- Do not share your home, yard address or daily routine
- Never send money or financial information
- Be cautious if someone pushes urgency or secrecy
- Consider a video call before meeting
Meet in person safely
- Choose a busy public place
- Arrange your own transport both ways
- Tell a friend who you are meeting and when you will check in
- Keep the first meeting short and avoid alcohol affecting judgement
- Do not meet for the first time at an isolated yard or trail
If something feels wrong
End the conversation or leave. You do not owe politeness at the expense of safety. Block the account, keep relevant messages and report the profile. Contact local emergency services if anyone is in immediate danger.
Common questions
Frequently asked questions
How do I report a profile?
Use the report option on the member’s profile or conversation and include enough detail for the review team to understand the concern.
Should I meet at a yard?
Not for a first meeting. A busy public place is safer, and you should arrange your own transport.
What are common romance-scam warning signs?
Urgent requests for money, rapidly escalating declarations, inconsistent personal details and repeated excuses for avoiding a video call or public meeting.
Meet someone who gets the horse life
Friendly profiles, genuine conversations and no need to explain why the yard comes first.
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